Thursday, August 20, 2009

Why men Love Bitches

smh.............ok now this is really getting ridiculous........ this is going tobe another random ass, ranting ass blog......

so much to say..and all the time in the world

Disclaimer: alot of my rants recently have been about men. you know why? b/c i don't have any issues in any other dept...don't get me wrong mylif eisn't perfect, just perfect for me...i also like to voice the opinions of my fellow cohorts.....


the title speaks for itself. i'm about 2go back to being THE biggest BITCH the east coast has ever encountered.. these are the only women that seem to get any respect..and not just your average nose-in-the-air-attitude-with-the-world, bitch. I'm going to be a GHETTO ASS -nose-in-the-air-attitude-with-the-world, bitch..they seem to be the only women that get anything done. They get the all jobs/careers/ scholarship money to school/ all the men good ,bad ,and ugly....all the respect in the world.. and i have my own opinion as to why i think this is: nobody wants to cross or disrespect a female they know will break/burn some shit up if things dont go right. I mean really . lets think about it: if there was somebody you knew would: embarass you ANYWHERE, bust all the windows out your car (word to Jazmine"i-have-a-whole-style-team-and-i-still-wear-nappy-wigs-and-the-same-liquid-leggings -for -every-performance -Sullivan) call your mother and talk shit to her, fight any other person u decide to be with, cut/bleach/rip your clothes, go through your phone an call back all the numbers THEY dont recognize ( like it's not YOUR damn phone)... I mean do i have to go on???? These rats are the ones that get all the respect.




Now, when you're respectful, don't like to argue but would rather discuss any issue, would never think of disrespecting him in public cause you respect him too much as a man , respect his parents too much to EVER call cursing or disrespecting them, don't use the kids against him (if there are kids involved) in any circumstance, give him his space and time with friends when needed, you get NO RESPECT..I mean cant even get in the game. Attend practice daily but cant even get off the damn bench......smh.....it's really a shame....i know TOO many decent , scratch that, way above average women that cant even MEET decent men. and God forbid you take care of yourself *gasp* don't have your hair done, mani/pedi, nice wardrobe, car etc.....Oh God NO.....you're really not worth their time......so sad that alot the other sex doesn't feel "needed" or appreciated if they didn't help make you.......

so maybe if i become the ghetto bitch that will curse you out and break your shit, i'll get somewhere right???? NEVER

if the dummies can't meet me half way , AT LEAST.......I'm GOOD..any dude that allows a female to treat them like shit...is weak. low self -esteem, lack of self -confidence. whatever psychological term you want to use....my personality is too strong, heart is too big, hair stays laid and face TOO BEAT to deal with an anything ass, no standard having ninja....
i'm so over it it's pathetic


what i HAVE decided to do is be patient......

Dont' Fret!!! i have also devised a plan ladies; a plan for reverting back to " bitch-a-lisms"....(see below for a brief overview)

1) stop breaking your neck to answer the phone/respond to texts / @replies on twitter/fb status comments/myspace messages/bbm's..he can wait
even when you're not busy. ACT like you are
Think about how many times you've called and he " just wasn't by his phone", " didn't hear it ringing", " battery was dying" or just plain didnt answer it....w etake whatever pitiful ass excuse they give and then what we do? repeat the EXACT same behavior.... sending texts, calling fom other numbers ans hit then get mad when he answer the unknown joint..BITCH.BOO.BYE........stop it now

2)stop giving up the puss..... ESPECIALLY For NOTHING...<~~~~ another topic in itself< i digress...........
if it gets that bad, keep a couple vets in the cut for some throw -back action, but do NOT add to the numbers..or quiet as kept, u can contact me, i will take you to "the store" in georgetown, get you right......Translation: go to toy store/toy party with your friends <<<~~~~ will touch on this topic in the near future.
honestly though ladies, it's b/c of us and our Emmy Award performacesthat these ninjas think their sex is that deal anyway...i mean dudes SWEAR you are hooked and lose all mental capacity afterwards..Chile Cheese....
when reality is ....nevermind..(LOL)

3) set standards and KEEP them. Dont adjust shit for their asses
they don't do it for us. women give more benefits than: Aetna, Care First, Blue Cross / Blue Shield and whatever other insurance providers are out their..STAY giving passes ....CEASE FIRE....They don't give us a pass FOR ANYTHING


i think i'm done ..for now


feel free to add any comments






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1 comment:

Unknown said...

GOOD GOOD STUFF those are some really excellent points...I would like to add just of few of my own rules:

For ladies with children; stop allowing random dudes to meet your kids. If he is there for sex then let him be that he doesn't need to even see or know your child's name.

Stop taking the little things he does as big things just because he may call you 10 times in the first week doesn't mean when week 5 rolls around it will be the same..GET A LIFE of YOUR Own.

Finally ladies, PAT ATTENTION: pay attention to the company he keeps, Pay Attention to His mama..if she aint shit your gonna have a hard way to go TRUST, pay attention to his work ethic, pay attention to what he places impotence on in life; if he is 30 or above and still feels that he HAS TO HAVE the latest Madden video game HOUSTON WE HAVE A PROBLEM, pay attention if he doesn't take care of his kids........enough said PAY ATTENTION Pay ATTENTION and Pay more attention